Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14144 Comments

Reply goyard handbags
4:11 PM on June 7, 2021 
Thank you for all your valuable efforts on this site. Gloria delights in setting aside time for internet research and it's really easy to understand why. Most people hear all relating to the dynamic mode you present important strategies through the web blog and as well as invigorate participation from the others about this point while our favorite daughter is now studying so much. Have fun with the rest of the new year. You're the one conducting a glorious job.
goyard handbags http://www.goyardhandbag.com
Reply supreme outlet
4:10 PM on June 7, 2021 
My wife and i were so fortunate that Jordan could finish off his reports by way of the precious recommendations he was given through your weblog. It's not at all simplistic just to find yourself giving away secrets and techniques which some other people have been making money from. So we recognize we have you to thank for this. The type of explanations you have made, the simple blog navigation, the friendships you make it possible to engender - it is mostly sensational, and it's really aiding our son and the family feel that the concept is pleasurable, and that's wonderfully serious. Thank you for the whole thing!
supreme outlet http://www.supremeclothingstore.com
Reply hermes
4:09 PM on June 7, 2021 
I have to voice my appreciation for your generosity giving support to persons that require assistance with this one subject matter. Your very own dedication to passing the message around appeared to be definitely invaluable and has continuously helped employees much like me to reach their targets. This informative help signifies so much a person like me and much more to my fellow workers. Thanks a ton; from each one of us.
hermes http://www.hermesonlineshop.com
Reply irving shoes
4:08 PM on June 7, 2021 
I together with my guys happened to be going through the best thoughts found on your site and suddenly came up with a horrible feeling I never thanked the web site owner for those secrets. These people are actually totally thrilled to learn all of them and have in effect clearly been enjoying those things. Appreciation for turning out to be really considerate as well as for getting such superior areas most people are really needing to be informed on. My very own honest regret for not saying thanks to you sooner.
irving shoes http://www.kyrieirving-shoes.us.com
Reply kd shoes
4:08 PM on June 7, 2021 
I precisely desired to thank you so much once again. I am not sure the things that I would have followed without the entire methods shared by you relating to such situation. It was before a distressing problem in my opinion, however , encountering your skilled strategy you processed it made me to cry with contentment. I'm thankful for the assistance and in addition expect you recognize what an amazing job you happen to be providing training the others via your web blog. I am sure you've never encountered any of us.
kd shoes http://www.kd12.us.com
Reply moncler
4:07 PM on June 7, 2021 
I not to mention my pals ended up examining the nice points found on your website and so suddenly came up with an awful suspicion I never expressed respect to the web blog owner for those strategies. These young men happened to be absolutely very interested to see them and have honestly been loving these things. We appreciate you turning out to be considerably considerate and then for pick out this kind of awesome areas most people are really eager to learn about. My personal honest regret for not expressing appreciation to you sooner.
moncler http://www.monclercoat.us.com
Reply jordan shoes
3:45 PM on June 7, 2021 
I am just commenting to make you understand of the wonderful experience my cousin's child gained browsing your site. She noticed several issues, with the inclusion of how it is like to possess an amazing helping character to let many people easily completely grasp a number of grueling things. You actually surpassed my expectations. Thanks for supplying those beneficial, safe, edifying and as well as cool guidance on the topic to Evelyn.
jordan shoes http://www.cheapjordan.us
Reply yeezy
3:44 PM on June 7, 2021 
I needed to compose you one very little observation to be able to say thanks as before for those splendid advice you have documented at this time. It is really pretty open-handed with you to present freely what a number of us could possibly have advertised for an ebook to help with making some money on their own, primarily given that you could possibly have tried it if you ever considered necessary. Those creative ideas also acted to be a fantastic way to comprehend someone else have the same fervor similar to mine to find out a whole lot more with respect to this condition. I am sure there are a lot more pleasurable situations up front for those who examine your site.
yeezy http://www.yeezy-sneakers.us
Reply paul george
3:44 PM on June 7, 2021 
My wife and i ended up being so joyful when Raymond managed to finish off his basic research because of the ideas he had when using the blog. It's not at all simplistic to just continually be releasing thoughts which often some others may have been trying to sell. And we also understand we've got the website owner to thank because of that. The most important explanations you have made, the simple web site navigation, the relationships you can give support to promote - it's everything impressive, and it is letting our son and us reason why that subject is pleasurable, which is very fundamental. Many thanks for the whole lot!
paul george http://www.paulgeorge.us.com
Reply air jordan shoes
3:43 PM on June 7, 2021 
I have to show some appreciation to this writer just for rescuing me from this circumstance. Just after looking throughout the world-wide-web and getting things that were not helpful, I figured my entire life was done. Being alive without the solutions to the problems you have sorted out by means of your blog post is a critical case, as well as the ones which might have in a negative way affected my career if I had not come across the website. Your primary ability and kindness in maneuvering the whole thing was useful. I'm not sure what I would have done if I had not come upon such a stuff like this. I can at this moment look ahead to my future. Thanks a lot so much for the specialized and sensible help. I will not hesitate to endorse your web blog to any individual who ought to have guide on this subject.
air jordan shoes http://www.michaeljordanshoes.us.com
Reply supreme clothing
3:42 PM on June 7, 2021 
I really wanted to post a simple note in order to appreciate you for these lovely secrets you are sharing on this site. My extensive internet investigation has now been honored with brilliant content to share with my friends. I 'd state that that most of us visitors actually are undoubtedly endowed to live in a fine community with very many special professionals with great tips. I feel extremely grateful to have come across your web site and look forward to really more pleasurable times reading here. Thanks a lot once more for everything.
supreme clothing http://www.supremeclothing.us.org
Reply a bathing ape
3:21 PM on June 7, 2021 
I have to convey my respect for your kind-heartedness supporting individuals that need guidance on the theme. Your very own commitment to passing the message all over had become particularly helpful and has in every case empowered men and women like me to arrive at their ambitions. Your warm and friendly instruction can mean a lot to me and far more to my mates. Warm regards; from each one of us.
a bathing ape http://www.bathing-ape.us
Reply kd 10
3:19 PM on June 7, 2021 
I really wanted to send a simple message to thank you for these stunning ideas you are posting at this website. My time consuming internet investigation has at the end of the day been recognized with good suggestions to talk about with my family. I 'd believe that we site visitors actually are definitely endowed to exist in a very good website with many perfect individuals with interesting methods. I feel extremely privileged to have discovered your webpages and look forward to many more exciting moments reading here. Thanks a lot once more for a lot of things.
kd 10 http://www.kd10.us
Reply golden goose sneakers
3:18 PM on June 7, 2021 
I wish to express appreciation to you just for rescuing me from this dilemma. As a result of browsing throughout the search engines and getting opinions which were not pleasant, I was thinking my life was well over. Existing without the strategies to the issues you have sorted out by means of your write-up is a critical case, and those which may have badly damaged my career if I hadn't discovered the blog. Your own skills and kindness in maneuvering every item was crucial. I am not sure what I would have done if I had not come across such a subject like this. I can now relish my future. Thanks for your time very much for the skilled and results-oriented guide. I won't think twice to suggest your web sites to anyone who needs to have direction on this subject matter.
golden goose sneakers http://www.goldengoosesneakers.us.com
Reply yeezy 350
3:18 PM on June 7, 2021 
I not to mention my guys were digesting the excellent guidelines from your web page and then instantly came up with a terrible feeling I never thanked the blog owner for those techniques. All the people were as a consequence joyful to read through all of them and have now absolutely been making the most of these things. Appreciation for genuinely considerably kind as well as for picking out these kinds of remarkable ideas millions of individuals are really eager to be aware of. My honest apologies for not expressing appreciation to you sooner.
yeezy 350 http://www.yeezy350v2s.com
Reply golden goose sneakers
3:07 PM on June 7, 2021 
My spouse and i ended up being absolutely joyous that Albert could do his preliminary research using the ideas he was given when using the web page. It is now and again perplexing to just always be freely giving instructions that the rest may have been selling. So we consider we've got the writer to be grateful to for this. The main explanations you have made, the straightforward web site navigation, the relationships your site assist to instill - it's got many amazing, and it's really aiding our son and our family imagine that this content is enjoyable, which is really vital. Many thanks for all the pieces!
golden goose sneakers http://www.goldengoosesneakers.us.com
Reply off white outlet
2:21 PM on June 7, 2021 
I as well as my buddies were actually reading the best information and facts from your website and so immediately I got a horrible feeling I had not thanked the blog owner for those techniques. All of the young boys were definitely certainly thrilled to learn them and have now quite simply been making the most of them. We appreciate you really being really thoughtful and also for choosing this sort of fine useful guides millions of individuals are really eager to be aware of. My very own honest regret for not saying thanks to earlier.
off white outlet http://www.offwhiteoutlet.us.org
Reply supreme clothing
12:31 PM on June 7, 2021 
I in addition to my guys have been taking note of the great techniques from your web blog and then got a horrible feeling I never expressed respect to the site owner for those strategies. Most of the ladies came for that reason thrilled to learn them and have in effect surely been tapping into those things. Thank you for truly being very helpful and then for choosing this form of incredibly good tips most people are really desirous to be informed on. My very own sincere regret for not expressing appreciation to earlier.
supreme clothing http://www.supreme-clothings.us.com
Reply supreme
12:16 PM on June 7, 2021 
I precisely had to thank you so much all over again. I am not sure the things that I would've undertaken without these strategies revealed by you over my industry. It previously was a very scary scenario in my view, but witnessing the very well-written manner you resolved that took me to leap with happiness. Now i'm happier for your work and as well , expect you comprehend what an amazing job you have been undertaking training some other people by way of a site. I am sure you have never encountered all of us.
supreme http://www.supremeclothings.us.com
Reply paul george shoes
11:55 AM on June 7, 2021 
I definitely wanted to write down a quick comment so as to thank you for all the remarkable concepts you are giving here. My extended internet investigation has finally been recognized with reputable information to write about with my neighbours. I 'd admit that we readers actually are truly lucky to dwell in a fantastic place with so many perfect people with very beneficial concepts. I feel pretty lucky to have seen the web site and look forward to plenty of more entertaining minutes reading here. Thanks again for all the details.
paul george shoes http://www.paulgeorgeshoes.us.com

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0