Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14153 Comments

Reply retro jordans
6:21 AM on May 20, 2021 
I simply wished to say thanks yet again. I am not sure the things I might have gone through in the absence of these opinions provided by you relating to such a subject matter. It was a real troublesome problem in my position, nevertheless viewing your specialised fashion you dealt with it forced me to jump for fulfillment. I'm just grateful for this help and as well , believe you realize what an amazing job you have been undertaking educating people today via a site. I am sure you've never got to know any of us.
retro jordans http://www.jordan-retro.us.com
Reply air jordan
6:18 AM on May 20, 2021 
I have to express my respect for your kind-heartedness for those individuals that really need guidance on this important matter. Your very own dedication to passing the solution all through appeared to be really insightful and has without exception encouraged individuals just like me to realize their endeavors. Your personal useful tips and hints indicates a whole lot a person like me and far more to my mates. With thanks; from everyone of us.
air jordan http://www.jordanstoreonline.com
Reply kyrie 7
6:18 AM on May 20, 2021 
I as well as my buddies have already been checking out the best key points located on your web page and then immediately came up with a horrible feeling I had not thanked you for those strategies. Most of the guys are actually as a consequence stimulated to see all of them and have now seriously been having fun with those things. Thanks for simply being quite accommodating and then for obtaining some exceptional ideas millions of individuals are really desperate to be aware of. Our own sincere apologies for not expressing gratitude to you earlier.
kyrie 7 http://www.kyrie-7.com
Reply kawhi leonard shoes
6:17 AM on May 20, 2021 
I and also my guys were found to be following the excellent suggestions located on your web blog while quickly got an awful feeling I had not expressed respect to the site owner for those tips. The guys appeared to be totally excited to study all of them and have now really been having fun with them. We appreciate you getting really accommodating and for finding this kind of decent subject areas millions of individuals are really needing to discover. My very own honest regret for not expressing gratitude to sooner.
kawhi leonard shoes http://www.kawhileonardshoes.us
Reply supreme
6:13 AM on May 20, 2021 
Thanks for all your hard work on this site. Debby loves setting aside time for internet research and it's easy to understand why. Almost all learn all concerning the lively manner you convey both useful and interesting strategies through your website and boost response from other people about this situation while our own princess has always been understanding a lot. Take advantage of the rest of the new year. You're the one performing a tremendous job.
supreme http://www.supremesoutlet.us.com
Reply supreme
6:13 AM on May 20, 2021 
I have to point out my appreciation for your kindness supporting those individuals that require assistance with this one study. Your real commitment to getting the message all-around came to be exceptionally helpful and have really made guys and women like me to get to their aims. Your personal valuable suggestions entails much a person like me and even further to my fellow workers. Many thanks; from all of us.
supreme http://www.supremeclothings.com
Reply supreme clothing
6:12 AM on May 20, 2021 
Needed to compose you one bit of remark in order to give thanks once again for your wonderful concepts you have contributed here. It's simply seriously generous of you to present easily precisely what numerous people could possibly have advertised for an ebook to earn some profit for themselves, chiefly seeing that you might well have done it if you ever considered necessary. The thoughts as well worked as the great way to realize that many people have the same zeal really like my own to know the truth very much more pertaining to this matter. I know there are thousands of more pleasant occasions in the future for people who see your site.
supreme clothing http://www.supremes.us.org
Reply adidas yeezy
6:12 AM on May 20, 2021 
Thanks for all your valuable effort on this site. Kate delights in engaging in investigation and it's really easy to understand why. We all know all concerning the powerful tactic you produce practical tips and tricks via this website and even improve response from other people on this concept and our favorite princess is in fact being taught so much. Have fun with the rest of the new year. You're performing a stunning job.
adidas yeezy http://www.yeezysadidas.us
Reply nike lebron 16
6:11 AM on May 20, 2021 
I want to convey my admiration for your kind-heartedness giving support to those people who need guidance on this particular topic. Your personal commitment to passing the solution all through was remarkably invaluable and have continuously made ladies like me to reach their objectives. Your warm and helpful guideline can mean this much to me and substantially more to my peers. Warm regards; from all of us.
nike lebron 16 http://www.lebron16.us
Reply supreme
6:10 AM on May 20, 2021 
I must show my affection for your generosity giving support to men who really want guidance on in this subject. Your special dedication to getting the solution all over ended up being extraordinarily invaluable and have regularly permitted men and women much like me to get to their objectives. This informative hints and tips indicates much a person like me and additionally to my office workers. Thank you; from everyone of us.
supreme http://www.supremeclothing.us.org
Reply curry 5
6:03 AM on May 20, 2021 
Thank you so much for giving everyone an extremely superb possiblity to read critical reviews from this website. It is usually very pleasing and as well , full of a great time for me personally and my office peers to visit your website more than thrice per week to study the fresh guides you have. And lastly, I am at all times amazed concerning the surprising thoughts served by you. Some two ideas on this page are essentially the most beneficial we have all had.
curry 5 http://www.curry5.us.com
Reply cheap jordans
5:30 AM on May 20, 2021 
I am only commenting to make you be aware of of the outstanding discovery my wife's daughter encountered studying your blog. She came to understand plenty of things, with the inclusion of how it is like to have an amazing coaching mindset to have the mediocre ones just know just exactly chosen complicated matters. You undoubtedly surpassed readers' desires. Thanks for supplying the powerful, healthy, edifying and cool thoughts on the topic to Gloria.
cheap jordans http://www.cheapjordan.us
Reply yeezy boost 350
5:11 AM on May 20, 2021 
I want to get across my love for your kind-heartedness giving support to those individuals that have the need for guidance on that topic. Your personal dedication to getting the solution throughout was exceedingly powerful and has usually made employees much like me to get to their aims. Your new insightful facts means this much to me and even further to my office colleagues. Best wishes; from each one of us.
yeezy boost 350 http://www.yeezy-350.us.com
Reply kyrie irving shoes
5:06 AM on May 20, 2021 
My spouse and i got very comfortable Louis managed to deal with his researching through your ideas he made in your web pages. It is now and again perplexing to simply be giving out key points that many others could have been selling. And we also take into account we have the blog owner to be grateful to for this. The main explanations you have made, the easy blog navigation, the friendships you will help foster - it is mostly great, and it's really aiding our son in addition to us reckon that that article is exciting, which is really pressing. Thanks for the whole lot!
kyrie irving shoes http://www.kyrieirvingshoes.us.com
Reply russell westbrook shoes
5:05 AM on May 20, 2021 
I wanted to put you the very little remark to give thanks yet again for the extraordinary concepts you have featured on this page. It has been certainly wonderfully open-handed with you to give unhampered exactly what a lot of folks might have marketed as an e book to earn some dough on their own, particularly considering that you might well have done it if you ever desired. The techniques also acted to be the great way to be certain that other people have similar fervor similar to my very own to realize a whole lot more with reference to this matter. Certainly there are a lot more enjoyable instances ahead for many who look into your blog post.
russell westbrook shoes http://www.russellwestbrookshoes.us
Reply a bathing ape
5:03 AM on May 20, 2021 
Needed to put you the bit of remark to finally thank you very much once again just for the pleasing pointers you've discussed on this website. This is so particularly open-handed with you to offer publicly all that many people could possibly have advertised as an ebook to earn some cash for their own end, particularly considering the fact that you might have tried it if you ever considered necessary. These tips likewise worked to be the fantastic way to comprehend other people online have the identical interest the same as my personal own to grasp more with reference to this matter. I'm certain there are thousands of more pleasant situations in the future for many who see your website.
a bathing ape http://www.bathing-ape.us
Reply yeezy
5:02 AM on May 20, 2021 
Thanks for your own effort on this website. My niece really loves setting aside time for research and it's really simple to grasp why. My spouse and i notice all of the compelling ways you give priceless tricks through the web site and cause response from visitors about this issue then our child is without a doubt being taught so much. Enjoy the rest of the year. You are conducting a remarkable job.
yeezy http://www.shoesyeezy.com
Reply off white jordan 1
5:02 AM on May 20, 2021 
I together with my friends have been looking through the best advice on the website then before long I had a terrible feeling I had not expressed respect to the web site owner for those strategies. All of the women happened to be certainly happy to see all of them and have in effect certainly been taking advantage of them. We appreciate you indeed being quite thoughtful and also for figuring out this sort of notable subjects millions of individuals are really needing to be aware of. Our sincere apologies for not saying thanks to you sooner.
off white jordan 1 http://www.off-whiteshoes.us.com
Reply hermes belt
4:45 AM on May 20, 2021 
Needed to draft you that little bit of observation to help give thanks again on your wonderful guidelines you have featured above. It's so tremendously generous of people like you to make publicly exactly what a few people could possibly have offered for sale for an e book to get some cash for themselves, principally now that you could possibly have tried it in the event you desired. These secrets additionally served to become easy way to comprehend someone else have similar dream much like my own to learn significantly more with regard to this matter. I know there are a lot more enjoyable times in the future for individuals that take a look at your website.
hermes belt http://www.hermesbelts.com
Reply kobe sneakers
4:43 AM on May 20, 2021 
I have to convey my passion for your kind-heartedness giving support to those individuals that require help with this particular study. Your personal commitment to passing the solution all through turned out to be exceedingly interesting and have surely enabled somebody much like me to arrive at their aims. Your new warm and friendly instruction denotes a great deal to me and much more to my office colleagues. Thank you; from everyone of us.
kobe sneakers http://www.kobesneakers.com

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0