Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14154 Comments

Reply moncler jacket
2:17 AM on May 18, 2021 
I have to express some thanks to this writer just for rescuing me from this particular matter. After surfing around throughout the the net and coming across concepts that were not productive, I assumed my entire life was well over. Being alive devoid of the answers to the difficulties you have resolved all through this article content is a serious case, and the kind that would have negatively damaged my career if I hadn't come across your blog. Your personal capability and kindness in touching the whole thing was important. I'm not sure what I would've done if I had not encountered such a thing like this. I am able to at this moment relish my future. Thanks so much for the expert and results-oriented guide. I will not be reluctant to refer your web site to any person who should have guidelines on this topic.
moncler jacket http://www.monclersoutletstore.com
Reply curry 8
2:17 AM on May 18, 2021 
I have to show my appreciation to this writer just for rescuing me from this issue. As a result of checking through the search engines and seeing principles that were not beneficial, I thought my entire life was gone. Living devoid of the strategies to the issues you have resolved by means of this short post is a critical case, as well as the kind that would have in a negative way damaged my entire career if I hadn't discovered your web site. The understanding and kindness in controlling a lot of stuff was useful. I'm not sure what I would've done if I had not come upon such a thing like this. I'm able to now look ahead to my future. Thanks for your time very much for this skilled and amazing guide. I will not be reluctant to suggest your web page to anyone who ought to have direction about this area.
curry 8 http://www.curry8.us
Reply curry 7
2:16 AM on May 18, 2021 
A lot of thanks for every one of your labor on this web site. My mother delights in managing research and it's simple to grasp why. A number of us know all regarding the dynamic ways you convey helpful solutions through this web site and therefore strongly encourage participation from people on this point and our favorite girl is without question becoming educated a great deal. Take pleasure in the rest of the new year. You are conducting a stunning job.
curry 7 http://www.curry7shoes.us
Reply ggdb
12:55 AM on May 18, 2021 
I happen to be commenting to make you be aware of what a fantastic encounter my princess developed studying your site. She realized lots of issues, with the inclusion of what it's like to possess an ideal coaching spirit to get others without hassle learn about certain extremely tough issues. You actually did more than my expected results. Many thanks for presenting these useful, trustworthy, educational not to mention cool guidance on this topic to Tanya.
ggdb http://www.golden-gooses.com
Reply cheap jordans
12:40 AM on May 18, 2021 
My spouse and i have been so fortunate that Jordan could conclude his reports through your ideas he had out of the web pages. It is now and again perplexing just to choose to be freely giving points which some people might have been selling. We really figure out we need the blog owner to be grateful to because of that. All the explanations you made, the easy website menu, the friendships you will aid to foster - it's got many incredible, and it's letting our son and our family imagine that the situation is thrilling, and that's tremendously pressing. Thank you for all!
cheap jordans http://www.cheapjordan.us
Reply moncler
12:35 AM on May 18, 2021 
I am writing to make you understand of the remarkable experience my wife's girl obtained visiting your web page. She mastered such a lot of things, which included what it is like to possess an incredible helping spirit to get many others quite simply have an understanding of chosen tricky topics. You actually surpassed our expected results. Many thanks for displaying the warm and helpful, dependable, informative as well as easy tips on this topic to Janet.
moncler http://www.monclerjackets.us
Reply lebron shoes
12:35 AM on May 18, 2021 
I wanted to create you one very small word in order to say thanks as before for your stunning tactics you have featured above. This has been really tremendously generous of people like you to offer unreservedly what a lot of people might have supplied for an electronic book in order to make some bucks for themselves, chiefly seeing that you might well have tried it in case you considered necessary. The secrets also served to become a good way to fully grasp other individuals have the same zeal just like my own to find out significantly more on the subject of this problem. I am sure there are millions of more pleasant instances in the future for many who scan your blog post.
lebron shoes http://www.lebron18.us
Reply kyrie 5
12:35 AM on May 18, 2021 
I wanted to develop a small message to be able to say thanks to you for these pleasant recommendations you are writing here. My extended internet search has at the end been paid with reliable knowledge to write about with my great friends. I 'd repeat that we visitors actually are undeniably blessed to dwell in a superb network with very many marvellous people with valuable suggestions. I feel very lucky to have encountered your web site and look forward to tons of more fabulous moments reading here. Thanks a lot again for everything.
kyrie 5 http://www.kyrie5.org
Reply surpreme
12:35 AM on May 18, 2021 
I wish to express some appreciation to the writer just for rescuing me from this situation. Right after exploring through the search engines and obtaining recommendations which are not pleasant, I figured my life was over. Living devoid of the approaches to the issues you've solved through your entire article content is a serious case, as well as the ones that might have adversely affected my career if I hadn't discovered your website. Your personal mastery and kindness in maneuvering all the pieces was excellent. I don't know what I would have done if I had not come upon such a solution like this. I can at this point look ahead to my future. Thank you so much for the skilled and result oriented guide. I will not be reluctant to endorse your site to anyone who needs recommendations on this issue.
surpreme http://www.supreme.us.org
Reply kyrie 6 shoes
12:35 AM on May 18, 2021 
I precisely needed to thank you very much once again. I'm not certain the things that I would have used without the entire methods shared by you relating to that area. It was before a very hard problem for me, but looking at this specialized technique you dealt with the issue took me to leap with happiness. Now i am happier for the assistance and in addition hope you comprehend what a powerful job you were carrying out training some other people through your webpage. Most likely you haven't come across any of us.
kyrie 6 shoes http://www.kyrie-6.com
Reply westbrook shoes
12:35 AM on May 18, 2021 
I simply wanted to appreciate you once more. I do not know what I could possibly have worked on without the type of creative ideas revealed by you over such area of interest. It previously was a very troublesome difficulty for me, nevertheless encountering the skilled form you managed it made me to weep for gladness. I am thankful for your work and even trust you realize what a powerful job your are carrying out instructing men and women thru your site. I am certain you've never met all of us.
westbrook shoes http://www.russellwestbrookshoes.us
Reply paul george
12:35 AM on May 18, 2021 
I would like to voice my appreciation for your generosity supporting those who should have guidance on your subject matter. Your very own dedication to passing the message along had been especially advantageous and have truly helped employees like me to get to their goals. Your personal invaluable instruction denotes a great deal a person like me and extremely more to my colleagues. Thanks a lot; from all of us.
paul george http://www.paulgeorge.us.com
Reply yeezy 700
12:35 AM on May 18, 2021 
I not to mention my guys were actually reviewing the great helpful hints on your web site while instantly I got a horrible feeling I never thanked the site owner for those techniques. The men came consequently very interested to read through all of them and already have in fact been using them. Many thanks for turning out to be really kind as well as for finding this form of magnificent subject matter most people are really needing to be informed on. My personal honest regret for not saying thanks to sooner.
yeezy 700 http://www.yeezy-700.com
Reply yeezy
12:34 AM on May 18, 2021 
Thank you for each of your work on this website. My niece loves engaging in internet research and it's really easy to understand why. A number of us notice all of the dynamic form you convey invaluable secrets through this blog and in addition improve response from website visitors about this theme while our favorite child is always understanding a great deal. Have fun with the remaining portion of the year. You are doing a pretty cool job.
yeezy http://www.yeezy350s.com
Reply golden goose outlet
12:10 AM on May 18, 2021 
I wanted to draft you that tiny word in order to thank you once again relating to the lovely concepts you have shown in this article. It has been particularly generous of people like you to make freely just what a number of people might have advertised as an e book to generate some dough on their own, most notably considering the fact that you could have tried it in case you desired. These concepts additionally acted like the great way to recognize that the rest have similar eagerness similar to my own to learn a whole lot more regarding this problem. I believe there are lots of more pleasant sessions in the future for those who read through your blog post.
golden goose outlet http://www.goldengooses.us
Reply off white
12:09 AM on May 18, 2021 
Thanks so much for giving everyone an extremely remarkable chance to check tips from this website. It is usually very cool and stuffed with a lot of fun for me and my office mates to visit your web site a minimum of three times every week to learn the latest guides you have got. And of course, I'm usually amazed with your surprising opinions served by you. Selected two ideas in this posting are honestly the most impressive I have ever had.
off white http://www.offwhite.us.com
Reply yeezy supply
12:08 AM on May 18, 2021 
I am glad for commenting to make you be aware of what a superb experience my daughter developed studying yuor web blog. She learned too many pieces, not to mention how it is like to possess an awesome helping nature to let other people with ease know just exactly certain very confusing issues. You actually did more than her expectations. Thank you for providing those interesting, trustworthy, explanatory as well as easy guidance on that topic to Emily.
yeezy supply http://www.yeezy-supply.us.org
Reply golden goose outlet
12:08 AM on May 18, 2021 
I have to show thanks to the writer just for rescuing me from such a instance. Because of scouting through the search engines and seeing ideas which were not productive, I thought my entire life was gone. Living without the presence of answers to the issues you have resolved as a result of your entire blog post is a serious case, and those which may have badly damaged my entire career if I had not encountered your site. The ability and kindness in dealing with all areas was excellent. I am not sure what I would've done if I had not come across such a thing like this. I can also at this point look forward to my future. Thanks for your time so much for your reliable and amazing guide. I won't hesitate to refer the website to any person who ought to have recommendations on this subject matter.
golden goose outlet http://www.goldengoosesonline.com
Reply lebron james shoes
12:00 AM on May 18, 2021 
Thank you a lot for giving everyone an extremely breathtaking chance to read articles and blog posts from here. It is often so enjoyable and also stuffed with a lot of fun for me personally and my office co-workers to search your web site a minimum of three times in 7 days to learn the new guidance you will have. And indeed, I'm also usually astounded with all the dazzling inspiring ideas you give. Some 1 areas in this article are surely the best we have all had.
lebron james shoes http://www.lebronjames-shoes.us.com
Reply adidas yeezy
11:32 PM on May 17, 2021 
I actually wanted to develop a brief comment in order to express gratitude to you for these fantastic guides you are giving out here. My rather long internet look up has now been paid with reputable content to write about with my friends and family. I 'd admit that most of us website visitors actually are unequivocally lucky to be in a fine network with very many marvellous individuals with insightful strategies. I feel somewhat lucky to have seen your entire site and look forward to many more brilliant times reading here. Thank you again for everything.
adidas yeezy http://www.yeezysadidas.us

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0