Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14154 Comments

Reply supreme
1:38 PM on May 15, 2021 
I am just commenting to let you be aware of of the perfect discovery my wife's princess went through visiting yuor web blog. She came to understand a wide variety of details, which include what it is like to have a marvelous helping heart to get the others clearly know selected problematic things. You undoubtedly surpassed our own expected results. I appreciate you for displaying these helpful, healthy, informative not to mention fun guidance on your topic to Kate.
supreme http://www.supremeclothings.com
Reply cheap jordans
1:38 PM on May 15, 2021 
I simply wanted to develop a quick comment in order to say thanks to you for those splendid points you are giving out on this website. My time consuming internet search has at the end of the day been recognized with useful know-how to exchange with my friends and family. I would admit that most of us visitors are extremely fortunate to live in a fantastic website with very many brilliant individuals with good things. I feel quite fortunate to have seen your entire webpages and look forward to so many more exciting minutes reading here. Thank you once again for a lot of things.
cheap jordans http://www.shoesjordan.us.com
Reply a bathing ape
1:36 PM on May 15, 2021 
A lot of thanks for every one of your work on this blog. My niece really loves participating in investigations and it's simple to grasp why. My partner and i learn all of the powerful mode you present powerful thoughts via this web site and in addition encourage contribution from others on this concern and our own simple princess is now discovering a lot of things. Have fun with the remaining portion of the new year. You're the one carrying out a remarkable job.
a bathing ape http://www.bathing-ape.us
Reply hermes
1:36 PM on May 15, 2021 
I as well as my friends have already been checking out the excellent solutions from the blog and then instantly developed a terrible feeling I never thanked the site owner for those techniques. Those men came absolutely very interested to see them and now have in fact been having fun with those things. Appreciate your truly being quite helpful as well as for pick out certain fabulous useful guides most people are really wanting to know about. My personal honest apologies for not saying thanks to sooner.
hermes http://www.hermes-handbags.us.com
Reply supreme clothing
1:16 PM on May 15, 2021 
Thank you a lot for providing individuals with an extraordinarily remarkable possiblity to read critical reviews from this web site. It's usually so terrific and as well , packed with a lot of fun for me personally and my office friends to search your web site a minimum of 3 times a week to read the newest stuff you will have. And indeed, I am also at all times impressed with all the eye-popping tricks served by you. Certain 4 points in this article are in truth the most suitable I've ever had.
supreme clothing http://www.supremeclothing.us.org
Reply curry shoes
12:48 PM on May 15, 2021 
My wife and i got so joyous when Ervin could carry out his analysis while using the ideas he gained from your own web page. It is now and again perplexing just to choose to be releasing things which the others could have been selling. We understand we now have the writer to give thanks to for this. Most of the explanations you made, the straightforward website navigation, the friendships you will help foster - it's got mostly terrific, and it's facilitating our son and the family do think that article is fun, which is exceptionally essential. Thank you for the whole thing!
curry shoes http://www.curryshoes.us.com
Reply jordan retro
12:36 PM on May 15, 2021 
My husband and i have been now cheerful Ervin managed to conclude his investigation from your precious recommendations he received using your site. It is now and again perplexing to just continually be handing out tips which usually other people could have been making money from. And we remember we've got the writer to thank for this. The entire explanations you've made, the straightforward site navigation, the friendships you can assist to foster - it is everything amazing, and it is leading our son and the family feel that the situation is entertaining, which is certainly wonderfully mandatory. Thank you for all!
jordan retro http://www.jordan-retro.us.com
Reply supreme
12:18 PM on May 15, 2021 
Thanks for all of the effort on this web page. My mom loves engaging in investigations and it's really easy to understand why. Most people know all relating to the powerful method you produce functional tactics by means of your web site and in addition boost participation from other individuals on that theme while our own child is truly being taught a whole lot. Take advantage of the rest of the year. You have been doing a stunning job.
supreme http://www.supremesonline.com
Reply nike x off white
12:07 PM on May 15, 2021 
I am just writing to let you know what a impressive discovery my daughter encountered reading your webblog. She noticed some issues, most notably what it is like to have an excellent coaching heart to have certain people quite simply have an understanding of specified very confusing subject areas. You actually did more than our expected results. Thank you for supplying those essential, trusted, explanatory and as well as unique tips about the topic to Evelyn.
nike x off white http://www.nikexoffwhite.com
Reply jordan shoes
12:07 PM on May 15, 2021 
I have to voice my love for your kind-heartedness for individuals who must have help on this question. Your real commitment to passing the solution around has been certainly useful and has in every case made many people just like me to achieve their aims. Your new useful information entails a great deal to me and additionally to my peers. Warm regards; from everyone of us.
jordan shoes http://www.jordan13.us.com
Reply golden goose outlet
12:07 PM on May 15, 2021 
I wanted to make a brief comment in order to express gratitude to you for some of the great ideas you are writing on this site. My extended internet lookup has finally been rewarded with brilliant know-how to talk about with my company. I 'd express that most of us website visitors actually are truly fortunate to dwell in a great place with so many wonderful individuals with helpful suggestions. I feel rather blessed to have used the website and look forward to so many more awesome minutes reading here. Thanks again for everything.
golden goose outlet http://www.goldengoosesonline.com
Reply stone island outlet
12:07 PM on May 15, 2021 
I must express some appreciation to the writer for bailing me out of such a circumstance. Because of browsing through the world wide web and seeing solutions which were not pleasant, I assumed my life was gone. Existing without the presence of strategies to the issues you've resolved through your post is a serious case, as well as the ones which could have adversely damaged my entire career if I had not noticed your web blog. Your good skills and kindness in touching all areas was important. I'm not sure what I would have done if I had not discovered such a subject like this. I'm able to at this point look ahead to my future. Thanks a lot very much for your skilled and effective guide. I won't be reluctant to recommend your site to any person who needs to have guide on this issue.
stone island outlet http://www.stone-island.us.com
Reply yeezy 500
12:07 PM on May 15, 2021 
I together with my buddies ended up checking out the best helpful hints on your web site while unexpectedly developed a horrible suspicion I had not thanked the web blog owner for those techniques. All the people had been absolutely stimulated to see them and have in effect in truth been enjoying them. Appreciation for truly being considerably accommodating as well as for figuring out these kinds of brilliant subjects most people are really eager to be aware of. Our own honest apologies for not saying thanks to you earlier.
yeezy 500 http://www.yeezy-shoes.us.org
Reply curry 7 shoes
12:06 PM on May 15, 2021 
I happen to be commenting to make you understand of the helpful encounter my princess experienced reading your site. She figured out some details, most notably how it is like to have an incredible teaching heart to let men and women quite simply understand some tortuous matters. You really did more than her desires. Thanks for providing those powerful, trustworthy, informative and in addition unique thoughts on your topic to Janet.
curry 7 shoes http://www.curry7shoes.us
Reply lebron shoes
12:06 PM on May 15, 2021 
I precisely wanted to thank you so much once more. I do not know what I might have created in the absence of those ways contributed by you relating to my question. This has been a real daunting setting in my view, nevertheless observing a new specialized manner you handled that forced me to weep over delight. I will be thankful for the guidance and even hope that you find out what a great job that you're providing educating the rest through a site. I know that you haven't met any of us.
lebron shoes http://www.lebronjames-shoes.us.com
Reply yeezy
12:06 PM on May 15, 2021 
Thanks a lot for providing individuals with a very special chance to discover important secrets from this web site. It is usually very beneficial and also jam-packed with a lot of fun for me personally and my office peers to search your site particularly thrice in 7 days to find out the new things you will have. Not to mention, we are usually amazed concerning the gorgeous pointers served by you. Selected two tips in this posting are completely the finest we've had.
yeezy http://www.yeezyboost380.us.com
Reply yeezy shoes
12:06 PM on May 15, 2021 
I needed to put you one little bit of observation so as to thank you very much as before over the breathtaking opinions you've provided in this case. It is really incredibly open-handed of people like you in giving extensively just what a few individuals would have distributed for an e-book to generate some money on their own, primarily considering that you might well have tried it if you ever decided. The inspiring ideas also worked to become easy way to be certain that other people online have the identical desire the same as mine to find out a good deal more around this matter. I think there are several more pleasurable occasions ahead for many who scan through your blog.
yeezy shoes http://www.shoesyeezy.com
Reply hermes belts
11:54 AM on May 15, 2021 
I simply wanted to appreciate you once more. I do not know what I would have created in the absence of the type of strategies contributed by you on my field. It was a scary scenario in my circumstances, however , noticing the expert manner you managed the issue made me to cry with joy. I will be happy for your assistance as well as trust you recognize what a great job you are providing educating the rest thru a blog. I'm certain you haven't come across any of us.
hermes belts http://www.hermesbelts.com
Reply kobe shoes
11:10 AM on May 15, 2021 
I am just writing to let you know what a magnificent experience my wife's princess had visiting yuor web blog. She figured out numerous things, which include what it is like to have an amazing giving mindset to have certain people effortlessly know precisely specified hard to do subject areas. You really did more than her expectations. I appreciate you for coming up with such essential, dependable, educational and as well as unique thoughts on that topic to Lizeth.
kobe shoes http://www.kobe-shoes.us.com
Reply supreme clothing
9:59 AM on May 15, 2021 
I precisely wanted to say thanks once again. I do not know the things that I might have used without the actual solutions documented by you concerning that area of interest. It was a intimidating difficulty in my circumstances, but observing a new expert style you dealt with it made me to jump over delight. Extremely grateful for your guidance as well as believe you comprehend what an amazing job you were providing training people today by way of your webblog. I know that you haven't encountered any of us.
supreme clothing http://www.supremeclothings.us.com

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0