Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14161 Comments

Reply stone island
3:18 AM on April 15, 2021 
I simply wanted to compose a simple remark to thank you for all the fabulous advice you are giving out here. My rather long internet research has now been recognized with beneficial facts to talk about with my classmates and friends. I 'd state that that most of us visitors actually are very blessed to dwell in a superb community with very many wonderful individuals with useful strategies. I feel pretty grateful to have encountered the webpages and look forward to plenty of more excellent times reading here. Thank you once again for a lot of things.
stone island http://www.stoneislands.us
Reply yeezy shoes
3:15 AM on April 15, 2021 
Thanks a lot for providing individuals with an extremely superb chance to read from here. It really is so beneficial and also jam-packed with amusement for me and my office mates to visit the blog the equivalent of 3 times in 7 days to see the latest things you will have. Not to mention, I'm just actually satisfied with all the outstanding inspiring ideas you give. Selected 2 areas in this posting are in fact the most suitable I have had.
yeezy shoes http://www.yeezy-shoes.us.org
Reply jordan shoes
3:04 AM on April 15, 2021 
I in addition to my pals have been reviewing the nice tips and tricks found on your web page and then unexpectedly got an awful feeling I never expressed respect to the website owner for those secrets. All the young men ended up certainly happy to read all of them and have now definitely been taking pleasure in these things. Appreciation for truly being well helpful and also for choosing certain incredible areas millions of individuals are really needing to learn about. Our own sincere regret for not saying thanks to you sooner.
jordan shoes http://www.jordansshoes.us.org
Reply curry 7
1:42 AM on April 15, 2021 
I have to convey my gratitude for your generosity in support of folks who should have guidance on this particular niche. Your real dedication to getting the message up and down became surprisingly good and have in every case permitted many people just like me to attain their desired goals. Your interesting publication can mean so much a person like me and much more to my colleagues. Best wishes; from each one of us.
curry 7 http://www.curry7shoes.us
Reply jordan shoes
12:32 AM on April 15, 2021 
I must express thanks to you for rescuing me from this type of circumstance. Right after searching throughout the search engines and meeting solutions which were not beneficial, I thought my entire life was done. Existing minus the solutions to the issues you've fixed all through the short article is a serious case, as well as those that would have in a wrong way damaged my entire career if I hadn't noticed your web blog. Your good competence and kindness in controlling all areas was vital. I don't know what I would have done if I had not encountered such a step like this. I can also at this time look ahead to my future. Thanks so much for the reliable and amazing guide. I will not be reluctant to propose the blog to any person who requires guidance on this area.
jordan shoes http://www.shoesjordan.us.com
Reply yeezy 350
11:05 PM on April 14, 2021 
I just wanted to jot down a quick comment in order to express gratitude to you for these magnificent recommendations you are writing on this site. My long internet search has at the end of the day been recognized with reasonable insight to go over with my great friends. I 'd believe that most of us readers are unequivocally fortunate to exist in a fine website with very many marvellous individuals with great solutions. I feel truly fortunate to have discovered the web page and look forward to so many more entertaining times reading here. Thanks a lot again for everything.
yeezy 350 http://www.yeezy-350.us.com
Reply bape hoodie
10:42 PM on April 14, 2021 
Thank you for all of the labor on this website. Ellie take interest in carrying out research and it's really obvious why. My partner and i hear all regarding the dynamic ways you make sensible information through this web blog and recommend response from some others about this topic then my girl is really understanding a lot. Enjoy the remaining portion of the year. You have been carrying out a remarkable job.
bape hoodie http://www.bapesonline.com
Reply paul george
9:25 PM on April 14, 2021 
A lot of thanks for every one of your work on this website. My mother delights in working on research and it is simple to grasp why. All of us notice all about the powerful manner you deliver priceless ideas via your web site and as well as foster participation from website visitors on the issue and our favorite princess is now becoming educated a great deal. Take advantage of the rest of the new year. You're doing a brilliant job.
paul george http://www.paulgeorge.us.com
Reply golden goose shoes
9:25 PM on April 14, 2021 
Thanks so much for providing individuals with an extremely spectacular chance to read from this blog. It is usually so great plus stuffed with a lot of fun for me and my office colleagues to visit your web site at least 3 times in a week to read through the newest things you will have. And lastly, I am also usually impressed considering the striking ideas served by you. Certain two ideas in this post are surely the most suitable we've ever had.
golden goose shoes http://www.goldengooseoutlets.us
Reply kobe 9
9:25 PM on April 14, 2021 
I needed to put you one bit of word so as to say thanks the moment again just for the exceptional tips you've shared on this website. This has been certainly wonderfully open-handed of people like you to deliver easily precisely what most of us could possibly have offered for sale as an electronic book in order to make some bucks for themselves, mostly given that you might well have tried it in case you desired. These advice in addition worked to be a good way to be aware that some people have the same eagerness really like mine to understand many more regarding this issue. I'm certain there are numerous more fun sessions in the future for individuals who read through your blog post.
kobe 9 http://www.kobebasketballshoes.net
Reply pandora jewelry
9:24 PM on April 14, 2021 
Thanks so much for providing individuals with an extraordinarily terrific possiblity to discover important secrets from this blog. It is usually very fantastic and also packed with fun for me and my office co-workers to visit the blog minimum three times weekly to see the new items you will have. Not to mention, we're usually happy concerning the fantastic tips you give. Selected 1 areas on this page are indeed the simplest we have all ever had.
pandora jewelry http://www.pandorasbracelet.us
Reply hermes online
9:24 PM on April 14, 2021 
I and also my pals came going through the good guidelines located on your web site and then at once I got a terrible suspicion I never thanked the web site owner for them. Most of the men are actually for this reason thrilled to study all of them and have in fact been loving these things. Appreciate your indeed being well thoughtful and also for choosing some extraordinary topics millions of individuals are really wanting to understand about. My personal honest regret for not expressing appreciation to earlier.
hermes online http://www.hermesonlineshop.com
Reply off white jordan 1
9:23 PM on April 14, 2021 
Thanks so much for providing individuals with an extraordinarily memorable opportunity to check tips from this blog. It is usually very terrific and also full of fun for me and my office fellow workers to visit your site at least three times in 7 days to read through the latest secrets you have. And lastly, I am usually astounded for the incredible ideas you give. Selected 1 points on this page are honestly the most beneficial I have ever had.
off white jordan 1 http://www.offwhiteshoes.us.com
Reply curry 6 shoes
8:36 PM on April 14, 2021 
I together with my guys were following the excellent points located on your web site then all of a sudden I had a horrible feeling I never expressed respect to the web site owner for them. The people were definitely so thrilled to read through all of them and have in effect very much been taking advantage of these things. Thank you for being quite accommodating and for utilizing such tremendous useful guides most people are really wanting to discover. Our sincere regret for not saying thanks to you sooner.
curry 6 shoes http://www.curry6.net
Reply jordan 11
8:24 PM on April 14, 2021 
My husband and i have been fortunate when Edward could finish up his analysis because of the ideas he came across through the weblog. It's not at all simplistic to simply possibly be giving for free thoughts which many people could have been trying to sell. And we keep in mind we have got you to thank for that. These explanations you made, the straightforward website menu, the relationships your site assist to foster - it's many fantastic, and it is helping our son and the family consider that that concept is fun, which is certainly pretty mandatory. Thanks for all the pieces!
jordan 11 http://www.jordan11retro.us.com
Reply jordans
8:00 PM on April 14, 2021 
I not to mention my pals were actually reviewing the great helpful tips from your website and so suddenly developed a terrible suspicion I had not thanked the web site owner for those techniques. These women are actually so glad to read them and have now in fact been loving those things. Thanks for getting considerably kind and then for deciding on this kind of smart useful guides most people are really wanting to know about. My personal honest apologies for not expressing gratitude to you sooner.
jordans http://www.jordansshoes.us.org
Reply chrome hearts outlet
7:37 PM on April 14, 2021 
I happen to be writing to make you be aware of of the really good encounter our child enjoyed reading through yuor web blog. She realized plenty of things, with the inclusion of what it's like to possess an incredible coaching nature to get others really easily grasp specified multifaceted things. You truly surpassed visitors' expected results. Thank you for rendering these good, trusted, edifying and easy tips on the topic to Mary.
chrome hearts outlet http://www.chromeheartstoreonline.com
Reply supreme clothing
7:37 PM on April 14, 2021 
I have to express my thanks to this writer for rescuing me from this particular circumstance. Right after looking throughout the the web and coming across tricks which are not pleasant, I figured my entire life was over. Living minus the strategies to the problems you've sorted out as a result of your entire site is a critical case, as well as those which could have adversely damaged my career if I had not come across your website. Your good competence and kindness in touching everything was important. I don't know what I would've done if I hadn't discovered such a point like this. I can also at this time relish my future. Thank you very much for your impressive and result oriented help. I will not be reluctant to recommend your web page to anybody who requires care on this subject.
supreme clothing http://www.supremes-clothing.com
Reply kyrie 5 shoes
7:37 PM on April 14, 2021 
My wife and i felt so happy Peter could round up his investigations using the ideas he gained out of the weblog. It is now and again perplexing to just possibly be releasing tips some people have been making money from. We fully grasp we now have the blog owner to thank because of that. The most important explanations you have made, the easy site navigation, the relationships you make it possible to foster - it is all terrific, and it is letting our son and us believe that that content is excellent, which is certainly pretty indispensable. Many thanks for the whole lot!
kyrie 5 shoes http://www.kyrie5.org
Reply kyrie 6 shoes
7:37 PM on April 14, 2021 
I'm writing to make you understand what a fine encounter my cousin's princess undergone viewing your blog. She came to find a good number of issues, with the inclusion of how it is like to have an ideal teaching heart to have certain people effortlessly master several extremely tough subject matter. You really did more than visitors' expected results. Thanks for supplying these practical, healthy, informative not to mention fun tips on your topic to Evelyn.
kyrie 6 shoes http://www.kyrie6.org

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0