Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14157 Comments

Reply stone island
5:48 AM on March 23, 2021 
I would like to express my thanks to this writer for bailing me out of this type of issue. Right after searching through the world wide web and getting techniques that were not beneficial, I thought my entire life was done. Being alive without the presence of approaches to the problems you've solved by way of your site is a critical case, and the ones which might have negatively affected my career if I hadn't come across your web site. Your primary expertise and kindness in handling all the pieces was invaluable. I am not sure what I would've done if I had not encountered such a thing like this. I am able to at this point look forward to my future. Thanks very much for the reliable and result oriented help. I will not hesitate to endorse the blog to any person who desires support on this subject.
stone island http://www.stone-island.us.com
Reply longchamp
5:09 AM on March 23, 2021 
I'm commenting to make you be aware of what a extraordinary encounter my cousin's princess undergone viewing your web site. She figured out lots of details, most notably what it is like to possess an incredible coaching nature to let many people completely know just exactly various extremely tough issues. You actually did more than visitors' expectations. I appreciate you for showing those warm and friendly, dependable, edifying and as well as fun guidance on this topic to Lizeth.
longchamp http://www.longchampoutlets.us
Reply yeezy shoes
5:09 AM on March 23, 2021 
Thanks for your own work on this web page. Betty enjoys doing investigations and it is easy to see why. My partner and i learn all relating to the lively way you produce very helpful ideas via your web site and therefore attract contribution from people on this concept plus our own simple princess is without a doubt understanding a great deal. Enjoy the rest of the year. You are always doing a brilliant job.
yeezy shoes http://www.shoesyeezy.us
Reply yeezy boost 350 v2
5:08 AM on March 23, 2021 
I needed to draft you the tiny observation in order to give thanks yet again just for the pleasing opinions you've documented in this article. This is simply strangely open-handed of people like you in giving unhampered all that most people could possibly have advertised for an electronic book to help make some money for their own end, most notably considering the fact that you might have done it in case you considered necessary. These points likewise worked as the easy way to comprehend the rest have a similar dream the same as my very own to understand very much more concerning this condition. I know there are thousands of more enjoyable occasions in the future for many who look over your blog.
yeezy boost 350 v2 http://www.yeezy-v2.com
Reply hermes
5:08 AM on March 23, 2021 
I truly wanted to post a small note to be able to thank you for the splendid instructions you are writing on this website. My long internet research has finally been recognized with reliable points to share with my best friends. I would admit that many of us site visitors are extremely fortunate to exist in a perfect network with very many brilliant professionals with good tricks. I feel very lucky to have come across your entire weblog and look forward to many more enjoyable times reading here. Thanks a lot once again for a lot of things.
hermes http://www.hermesonlineshop.com
Reply hermes handbags
5:08 AM on March 23, 2021 
I am only writing to make you understand of the fabulous discovery our child developed checking yuor web blog. She figured out several pieces, not to mention what it's like to have an incredible coaching heart to get many people easily know a number of hard to do subject matter. You actually exceeded our expected results. Thank you for giving these practical, healthy, informative and as well as cool tips on your topic to Kate.
hermes handbags http://www.hermes-handbags.us.com
Reply yeezy 350
5:07 AM on March 23, 2021 
I needed to compose you one little remark to finally thank you as before on your lovely secrets you have shared in this case. It is really remarkably generous of people like you to provide easily exactly what a number of us could have distributed for an e book to make some cash on their own, specifically seeing that you might well have tried it in case you wanted. The techniques as well worked to become good way to recognize that some people have the identical passion like my very own to find out a whole lot more on the subject of this issue. I am sure there are several more pleasant moments in the future for individuals who view your website.
yeezy 350 http://www.yeezy350boostv2s.us
Reply hermes birkin
5:07 AM on March 23, 2021 
I and my pals have already been checking the excellent thoughts found on the blog and then then I got a terrible suspicion I never expressed respect to the web site owner for those techniques. Most of the women were definitely absolutely passionate to learn all of them and have now undoubtedly been having fun with those things. Appreciate your indeed being really thoughtful and for making a choice on these kinds of wonderful subject areas most people are really desirous to understand about. My honest apologies for not expressing gratitude to sooner.
hermes birkin http://www.hermesbirkinbags.us.com
Reply spongebob kyrie 5
5:07 AM on March 23, 2021 
I wish to express thanks to this writer for bailing me out of this type of condition. Right after looking throughout the world-wide-web and meeting basics which were not productive, I figured my entire life was over. Being alive without the approaches to the issues you've solved by way of your posting is a crucial case, and the kind which may have badly damaged my career if I hadn't discovered your blog post. Your primary talents and kindness in maneuvering all the pieces was tremendous. I am not sure what I would've done if I hadn't come across such a subject like this. I am able to at this moment look forward to my future. Thanks for your time so much for the specialized and sensible guide. I won't hesitate to propose your web site to any individual who should get recommendations about this topic.
spongebob kyrie 5 http://www.kyrie5spongebob.us
Reply Homework Research
3:15 AM on March 23, 2021 
buy essay help writing college papers 1 page biography essay writing curriculum pay someone to write my paper college essay heading write an informative essay
Reply nike sb
2:57 AM on March 23, 2021 
I am also writing to make you understand what a wonderful discovery my girl experienced reading your web page. She mastered plenty of things, which included what it is like to have an incredible giving nature to make many others without difficulty grasp chosen tricky issues. You undoubtedly exceeded people's desires. Many thanks for showing the insightful, dependable, revealing not to mention unique tips about this topic to Kate.
nike sb http://www.sbdunk.us
Reply Writers Essay
2:45 AM on March 23, 2021 
essay writer bids writing essays cheap custom research papers cheap essay writing
Reply kyrie shoes
1:38 AM on March 23, 2021 
I in addition to my guys appeared to be going through the nice tactics from your web page and then then I got an awful suspicion I never expressed respect to the site owner for them. The men were definitely absolutely thrilled to read all of them and have in effect pretty much been having fun with those things. Appreciation for really being so thoughtful and also for finding such beneficial issues millions of individuals are really wanting to learn about. Our honest apologies for not expressing gratitude to you sooner.
kyrie shoes http://www.kyrie-7.com
Reply chrome hearts online
12:57 AM on March 23, 2021 
Thanks a lot for giving everyone an extremely pleasant opportunity to read in detail from this web site. It is often so pleasing and as well , jam-packed with amusement for me personally and my office colleagues to search your site more than three times per week to read through the new secrets you have. And definitely, I'm so at all times satisfied considering the outstanding strategies you serve. Certain 1 facts in this posting are surely the most effective we've had.
chrome hearts online http://www.chromehearts.com.co
Reply curry shoes
12:42 AM on March 23, 2021 
My husband and i ended up being quite delighted Peter could carry out his investigations through your ideas he received through your weblog. It is now and again perplexing to simply choose to be giving for free tips and tricks that men and women could have been selling. And now we grasp we have you to be grateful to for this. The specific explanations you made, the straightforward blog navigation, the relationships you will help foster - it is all powerful, and it's letting our son in addition to the family consider that this theme is exciting, and that is seriously pressing. Thank you for everything!
curry shoes http://www.curry8shoes.us
Reply paul george shoes
12:05 AM on March 23, 2021 
I and my buddies appeared to be digesting the great ideas from your site and then quickly got a terrible suspicion I never expressed respect to the site owner for those tips. Most of the boys were definitely so excited to see all of them and have absolutely been tapping into these things. Appreciate your really being quite kind and for settling on some important subject matter most people are really eager to learn about. Our sincere apologies for not expressing appreciation to you earlier.
paul george shoes http://www.paulgeorge.us.com
Reply balenciaga shoes
11:53 PM on March 22, 2021 
Thanks for your own efforts on this site. My niece really likes setting aside time for investigation and it is easy to see why. I learn all regarding the lively mode you create helpful strategies through the web blog and as well improve participation from the others on that article plus our own child is always starting to learn a great deal. Take pleasure in the remaining portion of the year. You're doing a useful job.
balenciaga shoes http://www.balenciaga.us.com
Reply kawhi leonard shoes
11:36 PM on March 22, 2021 
Thanks a lot for providing individuals with an extremely splendid possiblity to check tips from this blog. It is often very cool plus jam-packed with amusement for me personally and my office peers to visit your site not less than 3 times in 7 days to find out the new stuff you have. And of course, I'm at all times motivated concerning the remarkable methods you serve. Selected two tips on this page are honestly the most efficient I've had.
kawhi leonard shoes http://www.kawhileonardshoes.us
Reply curry 8
11:29 PM on March 22, 2021 
I enjoy you because of all your efforts on this site. My mom enjoys making time for internet research and it's really easy to understand why. A lot of people hear all regarding the powerful way you create very helpful items through your website and attract contribution from people on that area while our favorite child is always being taught so much. Enjoy the rest of the new year. You are doing a brilliant job.
curry 8 http://www.curry8shoes.us
Reply supreme
11:04 PM on March 22, 2021 
Thank you so much for providing individuals with an extremely terrific possiblity to read from this website. It is always so enjoyable and jam-packed with a good time for me personally and my office acquaintances to search your site at least three times in 7 days to find out the latest tips you have. And lastly, I'm just actually contented with your incredible things served by you. Certain 3 points in this post are honestly the most beneficial I've had.
supreme http://www.supremesclothing.us.org

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0