Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14142 Comments

Reply curry shoes
6:32 PM on January 7, 2021 
I in addition to my friends appeared to be taking note of the nice information and facts found on the website and then all of a sudden I got a terrible suspicion I never expressed respect to the site owner for those techniques. The women were definitely certainly passionate to see them and already have in reality been enjoying those things. Appreciate your getting quite considerate and also for picking out variety of essential areas millions of individuals are really eager to learn about. Our honest regret for not expressing gratitude to earlier.
curry shoes http://www.curry6shoes.us
Reply supreme clothing
6:31 PM on January 7, 2021 
I'm just commenting to make you know of the brilliant experience my friend's princess had checking the blog. She even learned plenty of issues, which included what it's like to have a marvelous giving style to get many others smoothly grasp specified tricky subject areas. You undoubtedly surpassed visitors' desires. Thank you for churning out the valuable, healthy, edifying and in addition fun thoughts on that topic to Julie.
supreme clothing http://www.supremeclothings.us.com
Reply pandora
6:31 PM on January 7, 2021 
A lot of thanks for every one of your work on this blog. My aunt enjoys doing investigation and it's easy to understand why. Many of us notice all about the dynamic method you create very useful ideas through your web site and in addition foster participation from other people on that area so our favorite daughter has been studying a great deal. Take advantage of the rest of the new year. Your performing a glorious job.
pandora http://www.pandorascharms.us
Reply stone island
6:30 PM on January 7, 2021 
I must express my respect for your generosity giving support to individuals who need help with that area of interest. Your special commitment to getting the message across came to be wonderfully beneficial and have all the time permitted men and women much like me to realize their dreams. Your personal important help and advice implies a lot to me and far more to my peers. Thanks a ton; from all of us.
stone island http://www.stoneislands.us
Reply Kiasow
6:07 PM on January 7, 2021 
ivermectin 1 cream
Reply lebron james shoes
4:47 PM on January 7, 2021 
My husband and i got absolutely contented that Louis managed to round up his homework because of the ideas he got through your blog. It's not at all simplistic just to always be handing out things which the others could have been selling. And we recognize we need the blog owner to appreciate because of that. The illustrations you've made, the simple website menu, the relationships you can assist to create - it's everything powerful, and it is making our son in addition to us feel that that issue is exciting, and that is tremendously important. Thank you for all the pieces!
lebron james shoes http://www.lebronjames.us.com
Reply jordan shoes
3:19 PM on January 7, 2021 
I would like to voice my appreciation for your kind-heartedness giving support to those who require help with this one idea. Your real dedication to getting the message up and down appeared to be definitely effective and has in most cases allowed professionals like me to attain their objectives. Your useful publication implies a lot to me and substantially more to my office colleagues. With thanks; from each one of us.
jordan shoes http://www.shoesjordan.us.com
Reply off white
3:19 PM on January 7, 2021 
I not to mention my buddies happened to be checking the excellent things located on the website and then then came up with a horrible suspicion I had not thanked the web blog owner for those secrets. The young boys were as a result warmed to see them and have now in truth been enjoying those things. Appreciate your being well thoughtful and for using this kind of excellent ideas millions of individuals are really desperate to know about. My very own sincere apologies for not expressing appreciation to sooner.
off white http://www.offwhiteoutlet.us.org
Reply supreme clothing
3:19 PM on January 7, 2021 
I want to express my respect for your kind-heartedness in support of individuals that absolutely need assistance with this important niche. Your special dedication to getting the solution along became unbelievably beneficial and have regularly enabled ladies just like me to realize their dreams. Your personal helpful help and advice indicates so much to me and especially to my peers. Many thanks; from each one of us.
supreme clothing http://www.supremes-clothing.com
Reply kyrie 7
3:18 PM on January 7, 2021 
I in addition to my pals came reviewing the best secrets and techniques from the blog and then at once got a terrible feeling I had not thanked the site owner for those strategies. The guys appeared to be for this reason joyful to read them and have in effect sincerely been loving those things. Many thanks for being very accommodating as well as for selecting this form of amazing resources most people are really wanting to be informed on. Our sincere regret for not expressing appreciation to earlier.
kyrie 7 http://www.kyrie-7.com
Reply birkin bag
3:18 PM on January 7, 2021 
I in addition to my buddies appeared to be taking note of the excellent guides from the blog then suddenly I had an awful suspicion I had not expressed respect to the web blog owner for those strategies. Most of the young boys were for this reason very interested to read through them and have now clearly been taking pleasure in them. I appreciate you for turning out to be indeed helpful and then for selecting this sort of excellent areas millions of individuals are really needing to discover. My personal sincere apologies for not saying thanks to sooner.
birkin bag http://www.hermesonlineshop.com
Reply nike sb
3:17 PM on January 7, 2021 
I want to show my appreciation to this writer just for bailing me out of this scenario. As a result of browsing through the search engines and coming across notions which were not beneficial, I thought my life was done. Existing without the solutions to the difficulties you have fixed by way of this report is a serious case, and those which could have in a wrong way affected my career if I hadn't discovered your blog. Your primary training and kindness in maneuvering all areas was important. I'm not sure what I would have done if I hadn't encountered such a thing like this. I can at this point look ahead to my future. Thanks a lot very much for your impressive and result oriented guide. I won't be reluctant to propose your blog post to any individual who needs and wants counselling about this area.
nike sb http://www.sbdunk.us
Reply yeezy boost 350 v2
3:17 PM on January 7, 2021 
I must express some appreciation to the writer for rescuing me from such a scenario. After exploring throughout the world wide web and coming across ways which were not powerful, I assumed my life was gone. Living without the answers to the problems you have fixed all through the article content is a serious case, and those that would have in a wrong way affected my entire career if I hadn't come across your web site. Your actual know-how and kindness in maneuvering the whole thing was valuable. I don't know what I would have done if I hadn't encountered such a stuff like this. I can also at this point look ahead to my future. Thanks very much for your impressive and result oriented help. I won't hesitate to refer your web blog to anyone who needs and wants guidelines about this subject.
yeezy boost 350 v2 http://www.yeezy-350.us.com
Reply Bad Credit
1:46 PM on January 7, 2021 
online credit application
Reply Alansow
10:55 AM on January 7, 2021 
stromectol for sale buy tizanidine uk nizoral cream price viagra over the counter usa low cost viagra price for viagra 100mg no script viagra online pharmacy discount code viagra online usa cheap yasmin acne
Reply Getting A Loan
7:14 AM on January 7, 2021 
instant money i need a loan now credit debt consolidation
Reply Quick Loans
6:46 AM on January 7, 2021 
where to get a personal loan
Reply goyard handbags
5:53 AM on January 7, 2021 
I precisely had to appreciate you yet again. I'm not certain the things I would've done in the absence of those hints shared by you about such situation. It previously was an absolute traumatic crisis for me personally, but taking note of a skilled fashion you managed that made me to jump for happiness. I'm just grateful for your work and even believe you realize what a great job you're doing teaching the mediocre ones via your web blog. I'm certain you haven't met all of us.
goyard handbags http://www.goyardhandbag.us
Reply Loans Online
8:46 PM on January 6, 2021 
personal loans with no credit no fee payday loans payday loans colorado loans in philadelphia payday loans bad credit cash fast loan cash
Reply nike kyrie 7
6:56 PM on January 6, 2021 
I would like to convey my affection for your generosity in support of people that absolutely need assistance with this one situation. Your personal commitment to getting the message around had been certainly practical and has continuously enabled guys and women much like me to arrive at their dreams. Your new informative facts means a great deal to me and especially to my mates. With thanks; from each one of us.
nike kyrie 7 http://www.kyrie-7.com

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0