Maggie Atkinson Consulting Ltd

Change management in a challenging world


Blog

Life's many lessons and how they might be learned

Posted on November 11, 2018 at 12:15 AM

I've had one of those intensely busy autumns that sometimes come one's way.  It has made me ever more mentally and emotionally agile as I move from setting to setting, tuning into each organisation's wave length, constantly adjusting what I think I'm being asked for so it matches what that client, that day, actually wants or needs.  And in every setting, with every group of people I've been working alongside, I have felt myself being challenged to learn. ...... And learn. ...... And learn again.  I have found myself, at regular turns, looking at who I am, what I think I'm doing there, in either a real or a virtual mirror and sometimes under a very bright spotlight.  I have been asked, across a double handful of assignments or challenges, to look at every aspect of myself as a result of what others have had to teach me in this ever-changing bright and breezy season of the year. I am lucky, in this "portfolio" stage of my life and career, to be working in a wide range of settings - as a consultant, as a Chair of the Board, as a volunteer, as a Non-Executive Director, and as a specialist expert or subject adviser in organisations' sensitive, challenging or difficult processes.  I've also experienced, though many who know me see the me who always hits the spot, being one of  the unsuccessful people in competitions various.  I mean that in the widest possible sense: from how fast everybody else runs at my local fit club leaving me straggling, through not being followed up by people earnestly asking to work with me, to not quite hitting the mark in things I thought I wanted, worked hard for but didn't get  -  only to realise I was only in those races for show, or because, old and wily as I am, I don't always say no when that's the very word I ought to use. What have I learned, or been reminded of when I already knew it but had filed it away somewhere at the back of my mind?  That there are others who are so brilliant, so "sorted," such thought or practice leaders or both, that they will always have something to teach me about how better to see things, how better to problem solve, how braver to be in setting out to solve a problem or a puzzle.  That there are very many more brilliant preople, amazing leaders, great contributors, wonderful innovators and carriers of the flame, than I have ever been or could ever be.  Watching them influence people or change situations is an education in itself, and I am in their company to admire what they do, and to learn how.  That I will be a learner all my life - including how to handle that life when something doesn't go my way so that I am not stopped in my tracks by the experience, but take the learning into my life and my work. That one of my strengths is that I am always learning, even when I am also teaching somebody else how to tackle their challenges and achieve their goals.  That life is actually one long lesson that brings rewards, grows me by facing me with what I don't yet know but need to understand and then apply.  In my business, and in whatever I give to others, there is always something new to learn.  Does that all sound ever so slightly "motherhood and apple pie"?  A bit "Pollyanna"?  Sorry if that's so.  Actually, no, I'm not.     

Categories: None

Post a Comment

Oops!

Oops, you forgot something.

Oops!

The words you entered did not match the given text. Please try again.

14143 Comments

Reply lebron shoes
8:51 PM on June 9, 2021 
I and also my friends ended up viewing the excellent secrets from the website and then all of the sudden came up with a terrible feeling I had not expressed respect to the site owner for those strategies. These people are actually consequently happy to see all of them and have honestly been tapping into these things. Many thanks for truly being indeed kind and also for deciding upon these kinds of excellent subject areas most people are really eager to be aware of. Our sincere apologies for not saying thanks to you sooner.
lebron shoes http://www.lebronjames.us.com
Reply kd shoes
8:50 PM on June 9, 2021 
A lot of thanks for your whole hard work on this website. Gloria really likes going through investigations and it is easy to understand why. A lot of people learn all regarding the powerful ways you provide useful tricks on this web site and as well as foster participation from some other people about this content so our favorite princess is really studying a lot of things. Have fun with the rest of the year. You're performing a useful job.
kd shoes http://www.kevindurantshoes.us.com
Reply kawhi leonard shoes
8:50 PM on June 9, 2021 
Thank you for all of the efforts on this web page. My mother delights in participating in internet research and it's really obvious why. Most of us learn all regarding the compelling means you give effective solutions on your website and in addition invigorate response from the others on this concern then my girl is understanding so much. Take advantage of the rest of the year. You are always doing a stunning job.
kawhi leonard shoes http://www.kawhileonardshoes.us
Reply Densow
8:48 PM on June 9, 2021 
tadalafil 60 mg uk lasix 40 mg for sale buy viagra us pharmacy viagra without script prices pharmacy
Reply supreme clothing
8:46 PM on June 9, 2021 
My wife and i have been very delighted when Peter could do his reports through the ideas he had from your weblog. It is now and again perplexing just to continually be handing out concepts that many people today might have been selling. So we figure out we have the website owner to thank for this. The specific illustrations you made, the easy web site menu, the relationships your site help create - it's most remarkable, and it's really aiding our son and the family understand that theme is interesting, which is certainly exceptionally pressing. Thanks for all the pieces!
supreme clothing http://www.supremes-clothing.com
Reply air jordans
7:54 PM on June 9, 2021 
Thanks for your whole labor on this web page. Debby takes pleasure in managing internet research and it is easy to see why. We all know all of the powerful form you give precious tips through the web blog and as well attract contribution from people on the matter while our favorite child is undoubtedly becoming educated a lot of things. Take pleasure in the remaining portion of the year. You're the one carrying out a stunning job.
air jordans http://www.cheap-airjordans.us.com
Reply golden goose sneakers
7:50 PM on June 9, 2021 
I in addition to my buddies ended up examining the nice procedures from your web blog and so at once I had a horrible suspicion I never expressed respect to the web site owner for those techniques. Most of the guys became so stimulated to read them and have now in truth been taking pleasure in them. I appreciate you for getting simply accommodating and for utilizing some smart issues most people are really desirous to learn about. Our own honest apologies for not saying thanks to earlier.
golden goose sneakers http://www.goldengoosessale.com
Reply retro jordans
6:57 PM on June 9, 2021 
I wish to express appreciation to the writer for rescuing me from this type of problem. Just after checking through the the net and seeing principles which were not pleasant, I believed my entire life was gone. Living without the presence of solutions to the difficulties you've sorted out by way of the review is a serious case, as well as ones which could have in a negative way damaged my entire career if I hadn't noticed your site. Your own personal competence and kindness in maneuvering every item was excellent. I am not sure what I would have done if I hadn't encountered such a solution like this. I am able to at this point look ahead to my future. Thank you very much for your impressive and amazing guide. I won't be reluctant to refer your web page to any person who desires tips about this subject matter.
retro jordans http://www.retro-jordans.us.com
Reply supreme hoodie
6:37 PM on June 9, 2021 
I wanted to put you one tiny note to thank you over again with the extraordinary basics you've featured in this article. It has been simply shockingly open-handed with you to make unreservedly what a number of people would've supplied for an e book to make some bucks for themselves, mostly considering the fact that you might have tried it in case you desired. The tips likewise worked to provide a good way to recognize that other people have the same interest just as mine to know much more with respect to this condition. I am sure there are millions of more enjoyable occasions up front for individuals who discover your blog.
supreme hoodie http://www.supremes-clothing.com
Reply stone island
6:02 PM on June 9, 2021 
My husband and i were now delighted Ervin managed to conclude his preliminary research from your precious recommendations he gained from your very own web page. It is now and again perplexing to simply choose to be making a gift of hints some other people have been making money from. And we all remember we have got the blog owner to thank for this. The main explanations you have made, the straightforward site navigation, the friendships you give support to instill - it's mostly remarkable, and it is making our son and us do think this article is exciting, and that's exceptionally serious. Thanks for all the pieces!
stone island http://www.stoneislands.us
Reply golden goose outlet
5:58 PM on June 9, 2021 
I not to mention my guys were actually going through the nice advice located on your web blog then all of the sudden got a horrible suspicion I never expressed respect to the blog owner for those strategies. All of the boys had been certainly glad to read them and have clearly been taking pleasure in them. Thanks for really being so considerate and then for obtaining these kinds of marvelous areas millions of individuals are really wanting to be aware of. Our sincere regret for not expressing appreciation to you sooner.
golden goose outlet http://www.goldengoose-outlet.us.com
Reply chrome hearts outlet
5:41 PM on June 9, 2021 
I'm also commenting to make you know of the fantastic discovery our princess went through visiting your webblog. She came to understand lots of things, including how it is like to possess a marvelous giving mindset to get the mediocre ones without problems fully understand chosen very confusing subject matter. You undoubtedly exceeded readers' expected results. I appreciate you for churning out those useful, trusted, edifying and in addition unique tips on this topic to Gloria.
chrome hearts outlet http://www.chromehearts.com.co
Reply yeezy 500 blush
5:20 PM on June 9, 2021 
I intended to compose you one very little observation to be able to say thanks over again for all the nice principles you've shown on this website. It was remarkably generous with people like you to make openly what a few individuals could have supplied as an electronic book to make some bucks for themselves, most notably now that you could have tried it in case you considered necessary. Those tips in addition acted to provide a great way to be sure that other people online have the same dream just like mine to learn many more concerning this condition. I am certain there are millions of more pleasurable instances up front for folks who check out your blog post.
yeezy 500 blush http://www.yeezy-500.us.com
Reply jordan shoes
5:04 PM on June 9, 2021 
I wanted to send you one very small note in order to give many thanks over again relating to the precious solutions you've featured above. It was remarkably open-handed with people like you in giving unhampered all that a lot of folks might have supplied as an electronic book to generate some bucks for their own end, mostly seeing that you could have done it if you ever wanted. These tips additionally acted to become a easy way to be certain that other people have similar zeal the same as my very own to find out way more in regard to this issue. I am certain there are lots of more enjoyable periods ahead for people who scan your blog.
jordan shoes http://www.jordan11retro.us.com
Reply chrome hearts store
4:54 PM on June 9, 2021 
Thanks a lot for providing individuals with an extremely remarkable chance to read in detail from here. It is usually so ideal and as well , packed with amusement for me and my office peers to visit your blog on the least three times in one week to read through the latest guides you have. And of course, we're always impressed with the terrific guidelines you serve. Certain two facts in this post are in truth the most suitable we have ever had.
chrome hearts store http://www.chromeheartstoreonline.com
Reply kyrie 6
4:29 PM on June 9, 2021 
Thank you so much for providing individuals with a very special opportunity to read in detail from here. It is often very excellent and also full of a lot of fun for me personally and my office fellow workers to search your blog not less than 3 times weekly to read through the new stuff you have got. Not to mention, I am just always pleased with your powerful creative concepts you serve. Some 4 areas on this page are clearly the best I have had.
kyrie 6 http://www.kyrie-6.com
Reply yeezy boost 350
4:26 PM on June 9, 2021 
I just wanted to write down a word in order to express gratitude to you for the lovely guides you are writing at this website. My time intensive internet look up has now been recognized with pleasant know-how to write about with my colleagues. I would claim that many of us site visitors are undeniably fortunate to dwell in a good network with so many outstanding individuals with insightful advice. I feel somewhat lucky to have discovered your entire site and look forward to so many more entertaining times reading here. Thanks a lot once more for all the details.
yeezy boost 350 http://www.yeezy350boost.us.com
Reply supreme outlet
3:53 PM on June 9, 2021 
A lot of thanks for your entire effort on this web page. My niece really loves conducting internet research and it is easy to understand why. A lot of people know all of the powerful mode you render precious strategies through your blog and therefore encourage response from visitors about this situation so our favorite princess is in fact becoming educated a lot. Take pleasure in the rest of the new year. You're the one doing a good job.
supreme outlet http://www.supremesoutlet.us.com
Reply stone island
3:52 PM on June 9, 2021 
Thank you a lot for giving everyone an exceptionally marvellous opportunity to discover important secrets from this site. It is usually so pleasurable and also jam-packed with a great time for me personally and my office fellow workers to visit your site at least three times in 7 days to see the fresh guides you have. And lastly, I am actually fulfilled concerning the astounding opinions you serve. Selected two facts on this page are unquestionably the simplest I have had.
stone island http://www.stone-island.us.com
Reply kyrie 6
3:52 PM on June 9, 2021 
I and my friends were looking through the nice suggestions from your web site and so then developed an awful feeling I had not thanked the blog owner for those tips. Most of the men came as a result very interested to learn them and already have in truth been enjoying these things. We appreciate you actually being so accommodating and for considering varieties of very good subject matter millions of individuals are really eager to discover. Our sincere apologies for not expressing gratitude to sooner.
kyrie 6 http://www.kyrie6.org

Ah, to live in interesting times!

I'm sure that, like me, for many contacts and colleagues, working days are running in anything but the usual order, anything but the usual way. For me, business has stopped for the time being, all bar finishing off some vital tasks to conclude a great assignment with a client whose people gave, gave and gave again as I worked to help them problem solve and solution find. I am still adjusting to the fact that, the diary being on hold (not closed!) there is, for the first time in my working life, no rush.  No urgency in getting that domestic business done around my business and the people who seek to use it. I can take my time in the kitchen and the garden, at the piano or in my permitted outside exercise a day.  This is not my style, and it makes me a bit jumpy.  It's a struggle to believe it, let alone let my clock run slower than usual.  For former colleague DCSs and their staff and partners, whilst some of the everyday clutter might have set itself aside, their days are very full, their sleeves rolled up and their heroic efforts focused on ensuring the people they serve are as safe as possible, for as long as possible, with as much dignity and support as can be afforded them. I salute them, as ever.  I do remember what single community crises were like when I did the job.  But then there was simply nothing of the scale, or the likely longevity, of the current massive challenge facing them, and society, right now.   


This period of enforced introspection has got me thinking, mostly in the researcher part of my brain.  What I see on a daily basis is that, beyond the muppets who don't think Covid19 is serious or could affect them and won't modify their conduct beyond getting mad and behaving badly, thousands of people are just doing good. Volunteering, offering simple help like dropping off shopping on a neighbour's doorstep, going a LOT further and putting themselves on the line, offering free online support to parents whose children are not at school so everybody may be feeling the strain.  The observer in me is starting to hatch some ideas that would bear scrutiny when this is all over.  Here are some research questions you might help me think about!


Will the economy recover? Or will we have to grow to being, by necessity, a more socially aware nation that seeks out and supports our strugglers rather than blaming them for their own situations then getting on with our own lives?  What will a national workforce look like when we are through the other side?  Will we stay connected, or are we likelier to go back to being frantic, self-absorbed, as our pre-crisis behaviour tended to make us?  Will the memory of when people pulled together, stayed local, formed bonds via Zoom or Skype or WhatsApp linger?  Will we mark when we realised that "We don't need that meeting" was an actual thing?  When people found both altruism and skills they didn't know they had?  When all this is over, can we harness citizen research as well as that done in academia to explore the phenomena we are witnessing as people turn towards others as well as addressing their own concerns?  Or does it take a serious crisis, another Covid19, to make us step into a shared mental and emotional space and capture what it teaches us rather than staying in our own, meaning we will forget? I'm working on some approaches to research bodies on all this, given this is a truly remarkable, as well as a sad, scary, deeply unsettling and uncertain - an "interesting" - time.


If you would like to co-explore what I ruminated on above, or if like me you are watching fascinated as people stop buying what they don't need and concentrate on what they and others do need? Together?  Please get in touch!  


And in the meantime? Stay safe.  Good luck. And if you are in an organisation that's keeping us all going, thank you.

0